letissier14 wrote:the genuine lack of help out there
I don't think there's necessarily a lack of help. That a person may be looking in the wrong locations for that help is likely a much stronger cause.
My immediate family that I grew up with = no help, in fact the greater percentage are actually a direct threat/harm on my well being. Not surprisingly, I choose to have nothing to do with them.
My extended family = lots of help available. This is just one example where someone could be looking for help in the wrong place.
letissier14 wrote:concentrated on educating myself on the consumer credit act, data protection act, etc
That identifies another sound source for help: Web sites covering those entities that do provide help to those struggling, the Government websites that cover various Acts of Legislation, Regulatory bodies such as the CRTC in Canada. I've personally had to contact the Banking Ombudsman on just 1 of the several banks I've dealt with over the years. As sad as it is, sometimes that's required. But if you don't know you can speak to such an oversight body then it becomes much harder to get the particular individual you're dealing with in the Bank to cooperate. Another example of not knowing where to look.
letissier14 wrote:Only 1 of the debt collectors accepted my offer, whilst the rest hounded me for larger payments which were simply beyond my means.
Sadly, some debt collectors - I think there's a good likelihood for "as a general group" - are not nice people, primarily I think due to what their jobs require of them:
- get the money no matter what the circumstances, assume everyone on the list is on there because they don't want to pay
Once you're dealing with a debt collector, it's even more important to be very aware of all your lawful rights/protections.
Are there bad people in the Banking industry? Yup! Just like there are bad people in any area of life including small family units. It's a reality that we get to live with because we are nowhere near as civilized as we'd like to think we are. However, as a general rule: just because some people are bad doesn't mean the group in general is bad.
Is the Government to blame for sites like Goodf? Nope! While it might not seem like the Government is helping, they are doing so in the ways that Society has set up to allow them to. Such as by creating that consumer credit act you used to help protect yourself in time of need.
Could the Government help more? Yup! But it's also hard to say how they can without running into resistance from the very Public they are trying to help. Additionally, like all entities, they are ultimately acting on decisions by human beings, beings who will make mistakes. The more complex something is, the more people (who are imperfect and will make mistakes) need to be involved, each giving their own input, for the person at the top of the ladder to ultimately make a decision on. Some may be providing their input in what they deem best for others while others may be providing their input with their own interests in mind. This is the nature of humanity.
While the Government and Banks contributed to the problem of people taking on more debt then they could afford, those very people also contributed. I looked around at the on-line "how much mortgage can you afford" calculators of a half dozen local banks. Using all the exact same input criteria the amount I "qualified" for ranged from 260k through 530k. Knowing my own comfort levels with regards debt, I won't go any higher then 300k.
However, I can easily understand there are people out there who do not know their own debt comfort levels. So if the Bank says they could afford a 530k home.... why the heck wouldn't they go for it? It is a much nicer home after all. So yea... those that decided to trust the Banks calculations and go with the higher debt load because they'd get a nicer home out of it without considering the impact it would potentially have on their financial health = also contributed to the problem.
In short: in my humble opinion there's enough contributing factors from
all players involved in borrowing that the blame is shared all around.