Daft Ada wrote:A little part of me has some sympathy for Craig.
All he may have wanted to do was protect his parents "investment" from the outset.
We would all try to protect a family member.
I can agree with: We'll all try and protect a family member
I'll add a however: some of us would only do so within the boundries of ethics, morals and the Law.
If Craig had not behaved as he has over time, I may have had sympathy for him.
Daft Ada wrote:In their desperation, they turned to peoplw who offered them a ray of hope when there wax none.
Keep in mind this all started with Tom posting to the OPCA site explicitly stating he had an upcoming debt deadline and asking how he could get out of the debt while keeping his house.
That post alone showed a very clear intent by Tom Crawford to avoid honoring his debt while keeping the benefit he received from the relationship.
As a result, he had hope prior to that deadline and knew what he had to do. They weren't desperate until they willingly chose to first seek out and then wander down the rabbit hole and follow the instructions by the Queen Of Hearts.
Just my humble opinion with how this epic journey started.
That's why I have no sympathy for Tom - he deliberately, consciously, willingly, on his own: chose a path to try and get out of a debt he owed while keeping the benefit.